Community Guidelines

Belonging without a test

• Respect bisexual, pansexual, queer, fluid, questioning, trans, nonbinary, ace-spectrum, and intersecting identities.
• Do not demand proof of identity, sexual history, attraction, relationship structure, or “enough” queerness.
• No biphobia, homophobia, transphobia, racism, ableism, misogyny, or other identity-based degradation.
• Good-faith disagreement is allowed; targeted hostility and dehumanization are not.

No fetishization or coercive recruitment

• Do not reduce bi+ people to fantasies, stereotypes, experiments, or access to a partner.
• Couples must be transparent about who is participating and respect members who are not interested.
• No deceptive “bait” profiles, surprise partner involvement, pressure for group sex, or repeated propositions after a boundary.
• Dating preferences do not excuse harassment, identity insults, or treating a person as a category rather than a person.

Consent and personal safety

• A no, pause, block, or lack of response ends the interaction.
• No harassment, stalking, threats, blackmail, sexual coercion, trafficking, or exploitation.
• No doxxing, outing, screenshot redistribution, or exposing another member’s presence or content.
• Never arrange or encourage sexual interaction involving a minor or a person unable to consent.

Member controls and enforcement

The member product must provide hide, mute, block, and report controls close to every relevant surface. Reports should be reviewed consistently, severe safety signals escalated urgently, and meaningful account actions documented with an appeal path when safety and law permit.